Pakistani stars Farhan Saeed and Mamya Shahjaffar have appeared in an interview session with host Rabia Mughni at the headquarters of Fuchsia Magazine. While talking about marriage, the initial spark and comfort, Farhan got candid about a few reflections which we believe deserve acknowledgement.
Farhan talks about the initial phases of excitement in a marriage which he feels is quite important but according to him the real essence of the bond is built upon comfort.
He emphasized that if one has to live with their partner for the longest period of time, then eventually the marital bond becomes all about comfort and friendship. He feels it is quite important to develop ease and trust with your partner so that both can rely on each other through thick and thin.
The actor makes sure to highlight that he believes excitement is a vital part of a relationship however it shouldn’t be the only priority. Farhan also states that he is often asked how to keep the excitement in a marriage alive to which he always responds: “You don’t bro, you change, you go for comfort. That is the person you are going to stay with forever.”
Here are the exact words uttered by Farhan during the span of the video clip: “Pehle excitement hoti hai uske baad comfort hona chahye and if you have 0 to live with your partner for the longest time eventually it is all about comfort and friendship comfort mein app baat kitna karsakte ho app gossip kitna kar sakte ho app lar kitna sakte ho app ro kitna sakte ho app share kjitna kar sakte ho all of that matters and the excitement in the beginning is a beautiful part aur yeh bohat logon ka meine sawal suna hai ke how do you keep the excitement alive you don’t bro you change you go for comfort that is the person you are going to stay forever not because you are getting excitement all the time.”
