Popular Pakistani actress Yashma Gill candidly shared feeling about love, heartbreak, and emotional pain during her recent appearance on the comedy talk show ‘Mazaaq Raat’ hosted by Imran Ashraf. In an emotional conversation, the actress reflected on how deeply love can transform a person and how heartbreak leaves behind scars that never fully heal.
When host Imran Ashraf asked her, “What do you think about love?” Yashma Gill responded with honesty and emotion.
She replied: “Ishq mein aap bilkul surrender kar jaty ho, wo aap karty nhi ho wo ho jata hai aur jab ishq mein dil tootta hai to phir wo bilkul chakna choor ho jata hai. Aur is ky baad mujy lagat hai dil ka aisa koi kona is tareeky sy tootta hai kyu ski mout ho jati hai.” (In love, you completely surrender yourself; it’s not something you intentionally do, it just happens. And when your heart breaks in love, it shatters completely. After that, I feel like a part of your heart breaks in such a way that it dies forever).
Continuing the conversation, host then said: Ishq howa?
Yashma responded: “mujy laga howa tha, ishq mei aap kehty ho wo door hi hai, wo khush hai mein uski Khushi mein khush hu.” (I used to feel that in love, you tell yourself that even if the person is far away, they are happy, and their happiness becomes your happiness too).
Imran added: “ye to aap hain lekin agr koi ishq karta ho to wo mahboob ko door nhi jany deta” (“But that is how you are, if someone truly loves, they do not let their beloved go far away)
Yashma said: “shayad waqt sahi nhi tha, mujy pata hai bahana nhi tha. Ishq mein apky pass jitni bhi wajohat ho ap nhi chor skty. Mein usko dhookybaaz nhi kahu gi mujy nhi lagata ky wo dhokybaaz hai wp shayad kaano ka kacha tha. (Perhaps the timing was not right, and I know it was not just an excuse. In love, no matter how many reasons you have, you cannot simply walk away. I would not call him a cheater; I do not think he was deceitful. Perhaps he was just someone who was easily influenced by what others said).
Futher, Imran said: “hamari nazar mein jo chor jaye wo bewafa hota hai, dhokybaaz hota hai, ghar waly nhi maan rahay?” (In our eyes, someone who leaves is considered unfaithful, a betrayer. What do you mean the family was not agreeing?)
Yashma denied then she added: “nahi, ghar walon tak to baat hi nahi gai, mein ny apko hint di hai ky bas kaano ky kachy hoty hain kuch loug unko kitny dafa smjhao, har baar to aap apny ap ko nhi prove kar sakty. End py ap bas kehty ho chalo koi masla nhi hai. Jo nahi hai khush aapky saath, mery bagair zyada khush hai to phir mery bagair rahay.” (No, the matter never even reached the families. I already hinted that some people are easily influenced by others. No matter how many times you try to explain things to them, you cannot keep proving yourself again and again. In the end, you simply say, ‘It’s okay.’ If someone is not happy with you and feels happier without you, then let them stay without you).
